Marry me! Gay and lesbian unions have been for a long time a subject that no one liked to discuss. For the last few decades, gays and lesbians have come out and expressed their sexuality preferences. Many believe that same sex marriage should not be legalized because it's against the moral. It's against the definition of marriage, which is considered as the union of a man and a woman as a husband and wife.
Same sex marriage should be legalized because the way society views the union of lesbian and gays can a change. Another reason why same sex marriage should be legalized is that children that are issued from a gay or lesbian couple will be loved and raised in a family that is legally recognized under the law. Lesbians and gays also deserve to have the same rights as heterosexuals. The way society views same sex marriage can change. Throughout history, many beliefs have changed. In the past, black people were not considered as citizens in the constitution.
It is not until the thirteenth amendment in 1865 that slavery was banned. Women were not considered equal to men and were not given the right to vote until 1920 when congress passed the fourteenth amendment. It takes time but opinions and beliefs can change and the past has shown us that is indeed possible! Same sex marriage are nothing more than the union of two humans being that care, love, and want to make commitments to each other. That commitment can not be recognized unless same sex marriage is legalized. Prohibiting same sex marriage is unconstitutional. 'The act discriminates on the basis of the sex by making the ability to marry depend on one's gender' (American Civil Liberties Union, p 12).
It also disregards the Faith Full and Credit Clause of the constitution. If a gay or lesbian couple gets married in a state where same sex marriage is legal, but then for some reasons decides to move to another state where same sex marriage is prohibited, it would mean that their union would not be recognized. Same sex marriage should be legalized. Gays and lesbians deserve to have the same rights in their unions as heterosexuals have. It is important to legalize same sex marriage because: Civil marriage is the way our society defines one's most intimate, committed relationships; it is the only vehicle our society has for recognizing the existence of primary relationships not defined by blood. That has powerful emotional consequences, and powerful practical consequences as well.
Our society uses marriage to identify our partners for everything from retirement programs, to critical medical decisions, to the simple right to be together in crisis situations, like hospital emergency rooms. (American Civil Liberties Union p 12). The legalization of same sex marriages will not promote promiscuity or bestiality; on the contrary, it will promote stability, responsibility, and family values. It will bring to gay and lesbian the stability in their couple.
They will have the same rights as heterosexuals but also the obligations. They will have to be faithful to each other. Gay and lesbian couples will have to take of each other the way a husband and wife do, in sickness and health. The legalization of the marriage between gays and lesbians will decrease the polygamy and adultery. (Andrew Sullivan p 9) The legalization of same sex marriage is more a problem of changing the way society views it.
It is clear that values and beliefs have change and that is part the evolution. It would have been impossible to discuss a matter like same sex marriages fifty years ago because society was not ready for that. It is time to give gays and lesbians the right they deserve. The legalization of same sex marriage will not effect the sacred institution of marriage.
It will give the right to human beings to form a legal union. Gay and lesbian are not trying to destroy the image of marriage. They are seeking the rights they deserve to have, the right that heterosexuals have. Gay and lesbian marriage has to be legalized in every states because it is against the Faith Full and Credit to recognize something legal in one state and then deny individuals of that right in another state. Family is the most valuable and the most cherish of the Americans values. Gay and lesbians can not be refused the right to form a family because of their sexual preferences..