The intensity of feeling between Catherine and Heathcliff defies family barriers imposed by Catherine's brother, Hindley after their father's death. Heathcliff was ill-treated by Hindley after the death of the old Earnshaw: He drove him from their company to the servants, deprived him of the instructions of the curate... He bore his degradation pretty well at first, because Cathy taught him what she learnt, and work or play with him in the fields. They both promised fair to grow up as rude as savages, the young master being entirely negligent how they behave, and what they did, so they keep clear of him... and the after punishment grew a mere thing to laugh at. The cute might set as many chapters as he pleased for Catherine to get by heart, and Joseph might thrash Heathcliff till his arm ached, they forget everything the minute they were together again.
(Pg 44) Thus, it is clearly obvious that since childhood their feeling for each other defies all the family barriers imposed on them. No outside force would be strong enough to eclipse their emotions. Even when she grows old enough for the question of marriage to arise, Catherine's relationship with Heathcliff remains much as it was when they were children. The way the two spirit intertwined are clearly illustrated in Catherine's speech below: My great miseries in this world have been Heathcliff's miseries; my great thought in living is himself. If all else perish, and he remained, I should still continue to be; and if all else remained, and he were annihilated, the Universe would turn to mighty stranger.
I should not seem a part of it. My love for Linton is like the foliage in the woods. Time will change it, I'm well aware, as winter changes the trees-my love for Heathcliff resembles the eternal rocks beneath-a source of little visible delight, but necessary. Nelly, I am Heathcliff-He's always in my mind-not as a pleasure, any more than I am always a pleasure to myself-but, as my own being-so, don't talk of our separation again-it is impracticable... Catherine loves both Heathcliff and Edger Linton on different basis-She loves Linton because he is handsome, and pleasant, and young, and cheerful, and rich, and loves her. Her love for Heathcliff is a must: it is the deepest impulse of her nature, it is 'necessary'.
Through her feeling for Heathcliff, Catherine discovers her own identity, her place in the world-as he does through her. Though Catherine realizes she has more in common with Heathcliff than with Litton, (Both are 'fire' to Litton's 'frost') nevertheless, she decides to marry Linton. Her decision is explained as: And he will be rich, and I shall like to be the greatest woman of the neighborhood, and I shall be proud of having such a husband. (pg.
78) It would degrade to marry Heathcliff... if Heathcliff and I married, we should be b eggers... (pg 81) In choosing to marry Linton instead of Heathcliff, and become the lady of Thrush cross Grange, where nature has been tamed, accommodated to the values of good taste and orders, Catherine has betrayed her own heart. Catherine decides to marry Linton but reluctant to forsake Heathcliff: Every Linton on the face of the earth might melt into nothing, before I could consent to forsake Heathcliff. Oh, that's not what I intend-that's not what I mean! He " ll be as much to me as he has been all his lifetime. Edger must shake off his antipathy, and tolerate him, at least...
(Pg. 81) If I married Linton, I can aid Heathcliff to rise, and place him out of my brother's power. (Pg. 81) This is her attitude towards marriage.
She is deeply in love with Heathcliff but married Edger Linton with a motive. Even when she was married to Linton her extremely intense form of friendship with Heathcliff still persists. She is unfaithful to her husband by meeting with Heathcliff. On the other hand, Heathcliff also tries to work out to meet her.
This extramarital relationship between them clearly has violate the social norms of her society in the Victorian age.