Frank's Life example essay topic
People always say, you can't judge a book by it's cover, and Frank McCourt is certainly an example of this. Throughout the book, he is constantly denied access to opportunities that will help to better his life because of his indigent appearance. His failed attempt to become an alter boy is one example of this. Yet he keeps fighting and striving to succeed, instead of just giving up. He also had to deal with the fact that his brother, Malachi, who he was closest to, was better looking and received more attention than him. Although this confused Frank as a young child, he coped very well, and was able to believe in himself, even as the less attractive brother.
Because he had to deal with all of this, he appreciated his minor achievements, like when his team, "The Red Hearts of Limerick", beat a team of wealthy boys in a soccer game. Frank scores the winning goal, and thinks this can only mean good things because "God or the blessed Virgin Mary would never send such a blessing to one who's doomed" (257). This is what helps to build Frank's self-confidence and enables him to keep his long-term goals in sight, to get to America, where he feels his talents will be rewarded despite his impoverished youth. Throughout Frank's childhood, there were very few times when feeding the family was not a challenge.
Even when Frank's father was working, he would very often drink his paycheck instead of bringing it home to his family. Frank remembers a time when his father did bring home his paycheck, and took notice at how proud his mother was when she was finally able to pay the man for her groceries. She was able to "hold her head up again because there's nothing worse in the world than to owe and be beholden to anyone" (23). This is where Frank learns that the ability to pay brings dignity and self-respect.
He draws a connection, that when he has food, his family is prospering. Later on in life, when Frank begins to earn his own wages, he loves the feeling of independence, and dreams of providing for a family of his own. He works for Mr. Hannon, delivering coal, and makes many of the other boys jealous of him. He doesn't mind when the boys harass him though, because he "has the job" and Mr. Hannon tells him he's "powerful" (264). Frank connects having a job with being powerful. This shows how Frank was able to overcome the struggles of hunger and actually taught him the value of hard work.
Frank experiences his share of sadness relating to several deaths of those close to him. The loss of his sister Margaret was particularly distressing, not only to Frank, but to his parents as well. He watches his mother go into a state of depression and his father go back to drinking as her death devastates the two of them. Frank learns what a precious commodity life can be, and that you must live each day to the fullest.
The death of his lover Theresa demonstrates Frank's devotion to his religion. He swears to "lead a life of faith, hope and charity, poverty, chastity and obedience" (325). The fact that he prays incessantly for Theresa's soul shows that he has a strong believe in heaven and hell, and this helps him to be a better person. Frank's ability to cope with, and learn from, death is what enables him to be strong later in life. Frank's life is filled with trials and tribulations. We see how he had to cope with poverty, hunger, and death and was able to use these adversities to strengthen his character and succeed in life.
We can all learn from the way Frank dealt with his struggles. Instead of looking at hardships and saying, "why me?" , we can look at them the way Frank did, and say "what can I learn from this and how can I make it better?" . A positive outlook, like we see in the book Angela's Ashes, is the only true way to achieve personal success.