Millay's Poem example essay topic
The speaker, (whom I think isn't necessarily Millay herself) is then speaking that cats die. But after a period of time of mourning the child moves on to their merry way of life. Millay explains that only when a child loses his or her parent (s) do the child grow up. No matter the age, they grow up and mature. I think the speaker is probably the person whose mother died when he or she was a child, and now are speaking of their child hood. Because the speaker said", 'I'm sorry mother,' " I think it is the mother who died.
The speaker seems to be talking directly to the reader telling them about their life. In the fifth and sixth stanza the speaker said that, "To be grown up is to sit at the table with people who have died, who neither listen nor speak". Millay writes that they are the parents of that child, and the people will not speak because they are dead. In the sixth stanza, Millay writes that the speaker ran down into the cellar and got some raspberries, but the people, "are not tempted" because they are dead. Millay's tone in this poem is longing I think and of depression and sadness. This poem is written in open verse.
It has no particular rhyme scheme and does not have any parameter. I also think the theme of this poem is that when children experience loss of a parent; it can leave a scar in that child's mind that may not go away even when the child is an adult. Even though that this poem may be a gloomy one, I still like it a bit because of its depth in the way it's written. There is lots of imagery in the poem, and it added to my confusion because I could not understand this poem at first. I like the second stanza because I find it very factual.
When I was a child, and (sometimes) even now, when a distant relative passes away, it doesn't affect me. Or when I watch the news I see that someone famous has died, it does not affect me either. I may fell pity, guilt for seeming so nonchalant about that person's death but I will eventually go on. There was one part I found sad but a tad funny. In the fifth and sixth stanzas the speaker in the poem is talking to no one in reality. But in their mind they are talking to their parents.
And the funny thing is that the speaker is upset that they don't respond to him or her! I think this person needs to see a psychologist quick, was my first thought. Edna St. Vincent Millay's poem left its reader feeling pity for the speaker. Losing a parent is not easy to accept, more so for a child. The child in this poem did "grow-up", but growing up did not stop them from having psychological affects on them. Once the parents of a child dies, the "child" in them also dies along with its mother and father, and are forced to grow up..